Welcome to the Resources Section. Below you will find information on both books and websites that support many of the issues addressed and mentioned in this website.
Books
Abuse Recovery
The Mother I Carry - Louise M. Wisechild
Strong at the Broken Places: Overcoming the Trauma of Childhood Abuse - Linda T. Sanford
The Drama of the Gifted Child: The Search for the True Self - Alice Miller
Anxiety & Depression
The Anxiety & Phobia Workbook - Edmund J. Bourne
Coping with Anxiety: 10 Simple Ways to Relieve Anxiety, Fear & Worry - Edmund J. Bourne, Lorna Garano
Anxiety, Phobias, and Panic - Reneau Z. Peurifoy
Breaking the Patterns of Depression - Michael D. Yapko
What To Do When Someone You Love Is Depressed : A Practical, Compassionate, and Helpful Guide for Caregivers - Mitch Golant, Susan K. Golant
How You Can Survive When They're Depressed: Living and Coping with Depression Fallout - Anne Sheffield, Mike Wallace
I Don't Want To Talk About It: Overcoming The Secret Legacy of Male Depression - Terrence Real
The Pain Behind the Mask: Overcoming Masculine Depression - John Lynch, Christopher T. Kilmartin
Betrayal
The Betrayal Bond - Patrick J. Carnes
Who Can You Trust? : Overcoming Betrayal and Fear - Howard E. Jr Butt
Betrayal of Innocence: Incest and Its Devastation - Susan Forward, Craig Buck
Codependency
CoDependent No More - Melodie Beattie
Beyond Codependency: And Getting Better All the Time - Melody Beattie
Facing Codependence : What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives - Pia Mellody, Andrea Wells Miller
Boundaries and Relationships: Knowing, Protecting, and Enjoying the Self - Charles Whitfield, M.D.
The Seven Jewels of Codependency - Robert F. Willard, Michael Gibertini
Couples & Relationships
Getting the Love You Want - Harville Hendrix, Ph.D.
The Conscious Heart - Gay & Kathlyn Hendricks, Ph.D.
Embracing the Beloved - Stephen & Ondrea Levine
The Relationship Cure - John M. Gottman, Ph.D.
Passionate Marriage - David Schnarch, Ph.D.
The Future of Love - Daphne Rose Kingma
Betwixt & Between Patterns of Masculine & Feminine Initiation - Louise Carus Mahdi, Steven Foster & Meredith Little
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work : A Practical Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert - John M. Gottman, Nan Silver
Depression Fallout: The Impact of Depression on Couples and What You Can Do to Preserve the Bond - Anne Sheffield
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail: And How You Can Make Yours Last - John Gottman
A Couple's Guide to Communication - John Mordechai Gottman
Partnering: A New Kind of Relationship - Hal Stone, Sidra Stone
Embracing Each Other: How to Make All Your Relationships Work for You - Hal Stone, Sidra Stone
Divorce & Separation
Rebuilding:When your Relationship Ends - Bruce Fisher (Ed.D.), Robert E. Alberti (Ph.D.)
How to Survive the Loss of a Love - Peter McWilliams, Harold H. Bloomfield, Melba Colgrove
Families Apart:Ten Keys to Successful Co-Parenting - Blau and Blaw
On Your Own Again - Keith Anderson, Roy Macskimming
The Way They Were: Dealing with Your Parents' Divorce After a Lifetime of Marriage - Brooke Lea Foster
A Woman's Guide to Healing the Heartbreak of Divorce - Rose Sweet
The Unexpected Legacy of Divorce - Judith Wallerstein
Domestic Violence
It's My Life Now : Starting Over After an Abusive Relationship or Domestic Violence - Dugan & Hock
Surviving Domestic Violence: Voices of Women Who Broke Free - Elaine Weiss
Healing the Trauma of Domestic Violence: A Workbook for Women - Edward S., Ph.D. Kubany, Mari A. McCaig, Janet R. Laconsay
Fear
The Fear Book - Facing Fear Once and For All - Cheri Huber
The Places That Scare You - A Guide To Fearlessness in Difficult Times - Pema Chodron
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway - Susan Jeffers
Love Is Letting Go of Fear - Hugh Prather, Gerald G. Jampolsky, Jack O. Keeler
Grief & Loss
Meetings At The Edge - Stephen Levine
Beyond Endurance: When A Child Dies - Ronald J. Knapp
Love Never Dies: A Mother's Journey from Loss to Love - Sandy Goodman
Quit Kissing My Ashes: A Mother's Journey Through Grief - Judy Collier
The Bereaved Parent - Harriet Sarnoff Schiff
On Grief and Grieving : Finding the Meaning of Grief Through the Five Stages of Loss - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, David Kessler
Finding Your Way After Your Spouse Dies - Marta Felber
On Death and Dying - Elisabeth Kubler-Ross
Swallowed by a Snake: The Gift of the Masculine Side of Healing - Thomas R. Golden
Saying Good-Bye to the Pet You Love: A Complete Resource to Help You Heal - Lorri A. Greene
Blessing the Bridge: What Animals Teach Us About Death, Dying , and Beyond - Rita M. Reynolds
Holocaust
Maus - Art Spiegelman
In The Shadow of the Holocaust - Aaron Hass
Legacy of Silence- Encounters With Children of The Third Reich - Dan Bar-On
Memorial Candles - Dina Wardi
Children of the Holocaust - Helen Epstein
The Night Trilogy - Elie Wiesel
Man's Search For Meaning - Viktor E. Frankl
Indigenous Wisdom
Shamanic Voices - Joan Halifax, Ph.D.
Woman Who Glows in The Dark - Elena Avila
The Shaman's Body - Arnold Mindell
Intimacy
Medea's Folly - Tanya Wilkinson
Undefended Love - Jett Psaris, Ph.D. & Marlena S. Lyons
Intuition
Awakening Intuition, Frances Vaughn
Practical Intuition - Laura Day
Divine Intuition - Lynn A. Robinson, Gillian Emerson-Roberts, Lynn A. Robinson M. Ed.
Cracking the Intuition Code: Understanding and Mastering Your Intuitive Power - Gail Ferguson, Gail Ferguson
Natural-Born Intuition: How To Awaken And Develop Your Inner Wisdom - Lauren Thibodeau
Money Issues
Seven Stage of Money Maturity - George Kinder
Money and the Meaning of Life - Jacob Needleman
Money, Money, Money: The Search for Wealth and the Pursuit of Happiness - Jacob Needleman
The Soul of Money: Transforming Your Relationship with Money and Life - Lynne Twist
Parenting
Raising Cain: Protecting the Emotional Lives of Boys - Thompson and Kindlon
How to Talk So Kids Will Listen & Listen So Kids Will Talk - Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish
Smart Love: The Compassionate Alternative to Discipline that Will Make You a Better Parent and Your Child a Better Person - Pieper and Pieper
Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too - Adele Faber, Elaine Mazlish
Assertive Discipline for Parents: A Proven, Step-by-Step Approach to Solving Everyday Behavior Problems - Lee Canter
Reviving Ophelia - Mary Bray Pipher
Pregnancy
The Mother of All Pregnancy Books: The Ultimate Guide to Conception, Birth, and Everything In Between - Ann Douglas
The Father's Almanac: From Pregnancy to Pre-school, Baby Care to Behavior, the Complete and Indispensable Book of Practical Advice and Ideas for Every Man Discovering the Fun and Challenge of Fatherhood - S. Adams Sullivan
Postpartum Survival Guide - Ann Dunnewold
Sexual Abuse & Sexual Assault
When You're Ready - Kathy Evert & Inie Bijkerk
Hours of Torture, Years of Silence - Teresa Lauer, M.A.
The Truth About Rape - Teresa Lauer, M.A.
After Silence - Nancy Venable Raine
Beginning to Heal: A First Book for Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse - Ellen Bass, Laura Davis
Betrayal of Innocence: Incest and Its Devastation - Susan Forward, Craig Buck
Secret Survivors: Uncovering Incest and Its Aftereffects in Women - E. Sue Blume
The Courage to Heal - Third Edition - Revised and Expanded: A Guide for Women Survivors of Child Sexual Abuse - Ellen Bass, Laura Davis
The Sexual Healing Journey : A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse - Wendy Maltz
The Obsidian Mirror: Healing from Childhood Sexual Abuse - Louise M. Wisechild
Victims No Longer: The Classic Guide for Men Recovering from Sexual Child Abuse - Mike Lew
Leaping upon the Mountains: Men Proclaiming Victory over Sexual Child Abuse - Richard Hoffman
Spirituality
Care of the Soul - Thomas Moore
Open to Desire - Mark Epstein, M.D.
When Things Fall Apart- Heart Advice For Difficult Times- Pema Chodron
The Power of Now - Eckhart Tolle
Radical Acceptance - Tara Brach, Ph.D.
The Wisdom of No Escape - Pema Chodron
After the Ecstasy, the Laundry : How the Heart Grows Wise on the Spiritual Path - Jack Kornfield
Yoga Mala - Sri K. Pattabhi Jois
The Heart of Yoga Developing A Personal Practice - T.K.V. Desikachar
The Direct Path - Andrew Harvey
A Gradual Awakening - Stephen Levine
Trauma
Waking the Tiger - Peter Levine
EMDR - Francine Shapiro, Ph.D. & Margot Silk Forrest
Women�s Issues
The Woman Who Gave Birth To Her Mother - Kim Chernin
Dancing in the Flames - Marion Woodman & Elinor Dickson
Women Who Run With The Wolves - Clarissa Pinkola Estes, Ph.D.
Aphrodite's Daughters - Jalaja Bonheim
When Women Stop Hating Their Bodies - Jane Hirschmann & Carol H. Munter
The Hungry Self:Women, Eating and Identity - Kim Chernin
Women Who Love Too Much - Robin Norwood
Websites
Center For Non Violent Communication
The Anxiety Network International
Depression.Com
The Addiction & Recovery Guide
Rape, Abuse, & Incest National Network
National Institute of Mental Health
NIMH - Eating Disorders
Girls, Inc.
Room To Read
San Francisco Women Against Rape
The Global Fund For Women
Teens Health
Joanna Intara Zim, M.A.
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San Francisco, CA ~ 415.923.0481
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